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Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Orphanage for Christmas

Another Opportunity to SERVE! Help Nathan with his Eagle Project and in doing so help these children of Majengo receive a Christmas!!     
        
                                           Nathan's Goals
1- Provide each child at Majengo with a Christmas gift. Each child should receive an article of clothing, underwear and a toy or game. 2- Provide supplies to Majengo Orphanage School. School Supplies include a battery operated CD player, CD's in English, books and musical instruments.


Due to the stigma of HIV/AIDS, countless women in Africa have been thrown out of their homes, lacking any kind of assistance, sick and unable to hold a job or look after their children.  Most children are struggling to get enough to eat, and millions are orphans without anyone to care for them. In the small village of Mto wa Mbu, Tanzania, a few farmers got together in 2008, opening a small facility for 52 young children, in the mud-floored, dark and leaky foyer of someone's home. They originally called it HURUMA. They had one teacher and several women who volunteered to cook the donated rice and occasional vegetables, feeding the children one meal a day. One small, dingy room was made available for 10 of the most vulnerable children who had no one to turn to; it had two beds, sleeping five children to a bed. The other children made their way back to relatives or neighbors to sleep overnight.  Prior to this minimal set-up, many simply had nowhere to go and were literally sleeping on the streets, scrounging and begging for food.  Conditions were so deplorable that Huruma was refused official status by the government of Tanzania to become an orphanage.

This was the unspeakable state of squalor these children were living in as of March of 2008, when Lynn Connell of Toronto, Canada, visited Mto wa Mbu.  She had been working in Tanzania for two years with a local NGO, volunteering at an orphanage on the busy safari route, when she discovered that the director of that orphanage was corrupt, personally profiting from the horrific conditions of those children.  She was devastated.  Fortunately, before she left for good, Charles Luoga of ICA Tanzania clued her into the embryo of the Huruma orphanage.

Lynn took it upon herself, without prior committed resources, but with a fierce determination to raise these children out of the hopeless situation they were in, to take personal and immediate responsibility to ensure these kids would have a future, one that not only included the basic necessities of food, clothing, shelter and medical care, but also the less tangible needs such as education, love, security, hope, opportunity and a basic sense of human dignity.  These kids had no reason to aspire to any of this prior to Lynn’s involvement.

A partially built home down the road was found to house the orphanage. Lynn went home, filled with enthusiasm and vigor, and raised $20,000 by making speeches and begging family and friends for assistance. One year later, Matt McKissock and Ian Ashbaugh of Warren, PA got involved and raised the remaining money required to finish the project, mostly by asking family and friends, including Matt’s mom Diana McKissock, and friend Jamie Bees, who visited the orphanage together this year.   Bunk beds, desks, dining tables and benches were built and all supplies were bought - everything needed to cook for 40 kids in our brand new, freshly built outdoor kitchen.  We renamed the orphanage MAJENGO -  which means ‘building up’ in Swahili.

By March 2009, the orphanage was ready to go!  The children moved in just as Matt and Ian arrived to visit. Currently (as of May 2010), the Majengo Orphanage is assisting 50 children between the ages of 3 and 9.  28 of the children live in the orphanage, while the rest live with neighbors or family, spending most of their days at our pre-school, arriving at 8 in the morning and leaving around 5 at night.  Those of age to attend primary school are provided with the textbooks and materials they need; the younger children are taught in the orphanage pre-school. The Warren Majengo Foundation was set up to ensure that all of the children, whether live-in or not, receive three nutritious meals per day, education and care, as well as any medicines they require.  Currently, the budget for this endeavor is a mere $650 per child, for the entire year.  Incredibly, at less than $2 per child daily, we can provide everything these children need.

The vision for the Warren Majengo Foundation is that we will be able to take care of our kids until they’re ready to take care of themselves as adults – whatever that entails. More than that though, they will grow up with the security of knowing that this is the case, and the sense of self worth that comes with knowing that they are valued in this world.

Unlike donating money to a large, distant foundation, and hoping that it makes its way to a good cause without undue waste or corruption, with Majengo we can see where the money’s going and we can see the results – in fact, anyone is welcomed (and even encouraged) to visit the orphanage for themselves.  Accounting and legal fees, promotional events, and so on are borne by individuals, rather than the organization itself or its donors. This ensures that 100% of your donation will go toward helping these children.  Contributions are tax-deductible – and every dollar is appreciated.
 
 
Visit givewithyourheart.blogspot.com for more information and for ways to help.

A story that has touched me deeply...

#7
We were the only family with children in the restaurant. I sat Erik in a high chair and noticed everyone was quietly sitting and talking. Suddenly, Erik squealed with glee and said, 'Hi.' He pounded his fat baby hands on the high chair tray. His eyes were crinkled in laughter and his mouth was bared in a toothless grin, as he wriggled and giggled with merriment.
I looked around and saw the source of his merriment. It was a man whose pants were baggy with a zipper at half-mast and his toes poked out of would-be shoes. His shirt was dirty and his hair was uncombed and unwashed. His whiskers were too short to be called a beard and his nose was so varicose it looked like a road map.
We were too far from him to smell, but I was sure he smelled.. His hands waved and flapped on loose wrists. 'Hi there, baby; hi there, big boy. I see ya, buster,' the man said to Erik.
My husband and I exchanged looks, 'What do we do?'
Erik continued to laugh and answer, 'Hi.'
Everyone in the restaurant noticed and looked at us and then at the man. The old geezer was creating a nuisance with my beautiful baby. Our meal came and the man began shouting from across the room, 'Do ya patty cake? Do you know peek-a-boo? Hey, look, he knows peek- a-boo.'
Nobody thought the old man was cute. He was obviously drunk.
My husband and I were embarrassed. We ate in silence; all except for Erik, who was running through his repertoire for the admiring skid-row bum, who in turn, reciprocated with his cute comments.
We finally got through the meal and headed for the door. My husband went to pay the check and told me to meet him in the parking lot. The old man sat poised between me and the door. 'Lord, just let me out of here before he speaks to me or Erik,' I prayed. As I drew closer to the man, I turned my back trying to sidestep him and avoid any air he might be breathing. As I did, Erik leaned over my arm, reaching with both arms in a baby's 'pick-me-up' position. Before I could stop him, Erik had propelled himself from my arms to the man.Suddenly a very old smelly man and a very young baby consummated their love and kinship. Erik in an act of total trust, love, and submission laid his tiny head upon the man's ragged shoulder. The man's eyes closed, and I saw tears hover beneath his lashes. His aged hands full of grime, pain, and hard labor, cradled my baby's bottom and stroked his back. No two beings have ever loved so deeply for so short a time.
I stood awestruck. The old man rocked and cradled Erik in his arms and his eyes opened and set squarely on mine. He said in a firm commanding voice, 'You take care of this baby.'
Somehow I managed, 'I will,' from a throat that contained a stone.
He pried Erik from his chest, lovingly and longingly, as though he were in pain. I received my baby, and the man said, 'God bless you, ma'am, you've given me my Christmas gift.' I said nothing more than a muttered thanks. With Erik in my arms, I ran for the car. My husband was wondering why I was crying and holding Erik so tightly, and why I was saying, 'My God, my God, forgive me.' I had just witnessed Christ's love shown through the innocence of a tiny child who saw no sin, who made no judgment; a child who saw a soul, and a mother who saw a suit of clothes. I was a Christian who was blind, holding a child who was not. I felt it was God asking, 'Are you willing to share your son for a moment?' when He shared His for all eternity. How did God feel when he put his baby in our arms 2000 years ago. The ragged old man, unwittingly, had reminded me, 'To enter the Kingdom of God , we must become as little children.'
If this has blessed you, please bless others by sending it on. Sometimes, it takes a child to remind us of what is really important. We must always remember who we are, where we came from and, most importantly, how we feel about others. The clothes on your back or the car that you drive or the house that you live in does not define you at all; it is how you treat your fellow man that identifies who you are.
Special thanks to Kristina Yarn Davis for sharing this story... What a great reminder.

Monday, November 29, 2010

Special Thanks to Leslie for Story #6

Here in Michigan there is a orphanage in Detroit that has over 100 children that it cares for. since there is such a large number they are financially unable to provide a birthday for everyone.  Now other then Christmas, birthdays are my favorite! I feel it's your special day to celebrate you!! It broke my heart to think of these kids waking up on their birthday only to find it was the same as any other day. So I got the ladies in our church together and we put together birthday boxes for the kids. Now on their birthday they will have fun gift full of goodies. We're also working on putting Christmas together for this same group. I know that the Savior loves each and everyone of us and I hope that in some small way this can convey to them that they are not forgotten that they are loved!

Leslie :)


What a great idea to help these children feel loved, not only on Christmas but through out the year on their special day! Thank you so much Leslie for taking the time to serving these sweet children and for sharing your story with us! 

KEEP SERVING!!! 
I NEED 95 MORE STORIES!!!!!!!!! 



Friday, November 19, 2010

SERVICE OPPORTUNITY!!!

We are looking to provide a great Christmas for 6 children that lost their father last year. If you would like to be a part of it please let me know.
Here is the wife and children that were left behind.
Six Maile Chix
http://sixmailechix.blogspot.com/
 
If you would like to help....
Contact Andrew from his facebook page facebook.com/andrew.payne1
Or email me at mallorymeacham@hotmail.com
 

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Share a Smile


You have got to read story #5
So adorable!!!

I am so grateful for this opportunity to serve.  It is so sad how you get carried away with life and daily activities going on that you forget to do such simple things that can make someones day.

Asher and I decided to take on Mal's challenge and do an act of service today.

It wasn't much... but just enough.  Especially for a little four year old.

We spent all afternoon decorating letters.  Ash would write on them i love you, Asher and mom (seeing that's all he knows how to write) or draw cute little pictures.  We also added some fun stickers and I would write on them, 'HAVE A GREAT DAY!' 'SHARE A SMILE!' 'WISHING YOU THE BEST!' or 'MAY THE SUNSHINE MAKE YOUR DAY BRIGHT!'.  We had such a fun time coloring, talking, taking pictures and laughing together as we made pictures for people.









Shortly after we were done we drove to the Wal-mart parking lot and put them on random cars hoping to make some one's day.






I love you ash and I'm proud of you and grateful for this small act of service.  Thanks for the reminder Aunt Mal.

We put on the back of all the letters to pay if forward... we hope this will help spread the joy!!!!


Special thanks to Cassie and her sweet son Asher for brightening up others days. You never know whose lives you will affect and how much your act of service will mean to someone who might really need it. A very sweet idea indeed. Thanks again! Love you guys!!!




Wednesday, November 17, 2010

may your eyes be open to many serving opportunites

 
Another story has arrived!! This is #4 Keep em comin!!
 
 Ok so me and my husband Ryan decided to do a little secret Santa. I visit taught the bishops wife in my old ward and noticed a huge hole in thier ceiling one time when I was over there. I know how busy and crazy there lives were at the time. They had a son on a mission and I'm sure they were a little money tight as most of us get in the  holidays and such. My husband happens to be a drywaller. So sneakily I contacted there son, who is my age, and arranged the whole thing! We were able to get it fixed when no one was home so that it would be a surprise! 
 It was a great feeling to know that we can stop and take time for someone else and to keep in mind those around us even though we feel so busy over the holiday season. I plan to keep this tradition up for years to come. It helps our little family get in the holiday spirit. Thanks mal.
-Whitney

 
Such a great idea to use your own talents and rescources to help someone in need! A special thanks to Whitney and her husband for their story and for keeping their eyes opened to serving!! Love you!

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

sometimes the SMALL and SIMPLE ways to SERVE are the best!

#3
Read this story I received from Heather...


The other day my daughter & I were at Wal mart shopping for a few things.  There was this old lady who was having a hard time with her things and looked like she could use a hand.  My first instinct was to help her and then I started second guessing myself... Well, I have my daughter with me, it'll be too hard, what if she doesn't want my help, etc.  I went ahead with my gut feeling and started helping her with her bags and talking to her.  My daughter was loving it and kept saying "Hi!"  "Hi!"  and the older lady loved having some new friends to talk to.  Before she got in her car you could see the grateful look in her eyes, and that look is what made everything for that split second pure bliss.  All the worries of the world were gone and life felt meaningful.  Service is truly a gift.  It does wonders for the soul and puts things in perspective for me.  I want to thank Mallory for this challenge as it has made me step back and not dwell on my own struggles, but lend a helping hand instead.  ~Heather




A big THANKS to Heather for spreading her love with those around her. What a great example she has shown to her girls in being kind to others. We need to all spread a little more cheer! Love you Heather! Thanks again!

Thursday, November 11, 2010

pay it forward

#2

Amber Kindred and her family are donating to this great cause. Take a look at this opportunity to service and join in their efforts!!!

Below is a recent post from http://presleespresent.blogspot.com/

 

 

Tuesday, October 26, 2010


Pay It Forward

We are over joyed with the suport we're recieving for Pay It Forward and amazed to see how many left comments/emails. We heard back from PCMC and they are ecstatic about the project and know it will help so many families! Really the only "rule" they are asking is that all things be wrapped/sealed. Keep this in mind with food items. Be sure to get items in a personal size.

Here is the list for one basket/tote. We learned there are actually 44 rooms, so multiply this list by 44 and we'll have what we need :)

1 Box of Granola Bars
2 Trail Mix (Personal Size)
2 Goldfish (Personal Size)
6 Fruit Leather (At Costco you can get a box with 48 individual leathers for under $10)
Breathmints/Gum
Small Eye Drops (Visine)
3 Pens & Journal
Fleece Blaket for the parents (47" x 57" OR 42" x 52"- Try and go for the bigger one :) )
2 Pairs of Socks (preferably with grips on the bottom)
2 Toothbrushes
Toothpaste
Chapstick
Small lotion (non-scented if possible)
Playing Cards
Disposable Camera

* With all the comments/emails the Sullenger's and Dave and I are recieving, we are coming pretty close to having all the fleece blankets accounted for, so it would be wonderful if you could focus on other items. However if you have your heart set on making a blanket or have already started making it (bought items), we will always welcome it and be sure to use them!

We're in the process of setting up a Paypal account, we're hoping to have it up and running in the next few days.

All donations or packages can be sent to:
(Chelsea Beckstrand)
1198 Pleasant View
Rexburg, ID 83440

Remember the list is only one basket. Whether you feel you can donate a box of fruit leather, chapstick, or your time by helping us in any way, it will all be greatly appreciated.

As of right now, we'll be compiling the baskets Friday December 17, 2010 at Madison Middle School in Rexburg, Idaho. We haven't designated a time yet, but we hope to soon. Madison Middle school has been kind enough to jump at the offer and we felt it was a great way to let students serve. A big thanks to MMS!

Any questions? Leave a comment or email me or Ashely at
cnbeckstrand@gmail.com ash_sidd@hotmail.com

Again thank you for the support. Our goal for this project is to lessen the burden on the families who go into PCMC PICU and because of the help from everyone we're going to be able to acheive it.

Love,
The Becktrand's & Sullenger's
Go to http://presleespresent.blogspot.com/ if you would like to donate or to recieve updated information about there project and this amazing service!!!
Thanks again Amber! Love you!


Pay It Forward
to read their story go to  http://patrickandashley.blogspot.com/

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

LOVE this email i received

With only 52 days remaining til Christmas day I am so thankful to Sam Lloyd for taking the time to send me this email!!! It is the only one I have received so thank you for your input and for opening my eyes to many daily acts of kindness I can participate in. I love everything about this.... Read for yourself....

#1

Your blog got me thinking about what 'service' is. I've realized that it's more than just doing things for people, but ultimately it's about helping people feel good.

Our lives, as humans, come down to the emotions we experience. When we experience negative emotions, our lives are crap. When we experience positive emotions, our lives are bliss. So the quality of our lives comes down to the quality of the emotions we experience on a regular basis.

I know people who 'have it all' as far as material possessions are concerned but are absolutely poor when it comes to the emotional content of their lives.

I also know people who have literally nothing when it comes to material possessions but are totally rich emotionally. The classic example that demonstrates this concept is the studies on happiness where 3rd world countries often rank higher than the United States.

SOOOOO, what's my point? Service really comes down to making/helping people feel good. Being cheerful to the gas station attendant, including the 'uncool' kid with sincerity and authenticity, focusing on making people laugh and including them into your life, having intellectually stimulating conversations, etc. Those are a few small example.

When we do these small things, there tends to be a ripple effect. The 'pay it forward' principle happens automatically. For example, maybe you're proactively nice to the overweight employee at Wal-Mart even though they completely ignore you, then they are a bit more cheerful for the remainder of their day, and the people who came through their line are just a bit emotionally uplifted because of that and the 'ripple' goes forward.

Anyways, just thoughts.

Love you! ;)

Sam


Thanks again Sam! And to everyone else.... GO and PAY IT FORWARD!!!!!